We do not know what's best for others.
It is our job to determine what's best for ourselves. "I know what you need"..."I know what you should do"... "Now listen, this is what I think you should be working on right now." i paste a video clip that you may know " own who you are as Lewis Howes on Being Confident "Own Who You Are: podcast
These are audacious statements, beliefs that take us away from how we operate on our side even eveything in taken, in high places you can operate on spiritual plane of life. Each of us is given the ability to be able to discern and detect our own path, as an entrepreuners have intuition on a daily basis. This is not always easy.We may have to struggles to reach that quiet, still place.
Giving advice, making decisions for others, mapping out their strategy, is not our job. Nor is it their job to direct us. Even if we have a clean contract with someone to help us -- such as in a sponsorship relayionship-- we cannot trust that others always know what is best for us. We are responsible for listening to the information that comes to us. We are responsible for asking for guidance ans direction. But it is our responsiblity to sift and sort through information, and then listen to ourselves about what is best for us. Nobody can know that but ourselves.
A great gift we can give to others is to be able to trust in them-- that they have the ability to discern what is best for them and the right to find that path by making mistakes and learning,
To trust ourselves to be able to discover- through that same imperfect process of struggle, trial, and error - is a great gift we can give ourselves
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